Things i learned living away from home
We know how difficult it is sometimes to leave our comfort zone, leave our home, our families and friends, but living away from all means flying without wings, grow and change.
There are many reasons why we left our nest, like work or studies, and some people find it
easier than others, and this make us realize what is most important in our lives, and also learning a lot of things. - You realize that your hometown is much closer to your heart
When you are away, you begin to appreciate more things, you start to think more about your family, the things you used to do, and you learn to appreciate the things that your mom did for you, but all is to grow, learn new things and new people.
I do not believe in fate but I think everything that happens in your life is for your benefit, sometimes it is painful that "benefit" but we must take all the good you can for every situation.
Everything happens for a reason, live it, love it, learn from it.
2- You start valuing money
Now that you are living alone, you will learn to value money better, you'll know what it is to save and always buy necessities,and to think twice before buying something just to impress others; when we are living with our family we got used to them to buy us all, and wedo not know the efforts made by them until it is our turn to value our own money. People value and spend their money more wisely when they acquire it by their own efforts, also known as work.
3-You learn to solve your own problems
you are living alone, you're ALONE and away from home and now? now you have to solve your own problems, there is no more mom and dad to help us.
Before we go away we say: what would i do in this situation? what would i do without my mom if something happens? and we never know until there is a problem in our lives, and that's when we see what we are capable of solving
I've never lived alone or away from home, but I guess it must be a huge change as you said, and even though I still live at home, my mom makes sure to teach me how to do things by myself, and I actually know how to do many things that got me feeling like I could live alone, but as I live with her I don't do many of them jajaja; on the other hand that is true about the money, my parents al least try to give me an amount of money for me to administrate during the month to al lest learn a bit about budget, I find your blog very interesting friend! and I admire that you are a true grown adult!
ResponderEliminarBeing independet is such a hard thing, I haven't live alone yet but I can understand how hard that is, and even more if you are away from your family. Bills, cleaning that's a nightmare for me. The general adult stuffs make me realise that I am not so young and free anymore. It's just something that we have to learn and do. But it's not all bad, like you said you begin to actually apreciate things that you never thought about before living on your own.
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